• Kaleb Joseph Discusses Athletic Pressures and Mental Health

    Kaleb Joseph Discusses Athletic Pressures and Mental Health

    “Everything you want in life is on the other side of vulnerability.” This statement is a touchstone for Kaleb Joseph and his story. It appears on his organization’s merchandise, marketing materials, and website. In Hall on January 28, Kaleb Joseph shared his story with RL students, faculty, and staff: his chaotic upbringing, his finding solace in basketball, his living his dream when he committed to play for Syracuse, and his ultimate fall from grace when the pressure and anxiety became too much. 

    Kaleb’s story highlights how anxiety can quietly grow beneath success, often hidden behind ambition and achievement until it becomes overwhelming. His journey serves as a reminder that seeking help is not a weakness, but an act of courage—one that opens the door to true healing. In recent years, therapy has evolved to include both traditional and innovative methods aimed at restoring mental balance and emotional clarity. Avesta Ketamine Wellness stands out as one such place where individuals struggling with anxiety can explore personalized treatment options in a compassionate, science-based environment. Through guided therapy and advanced care, people are finding new ways to face vulnerability, rebuild confidence, and rediscover a sense of peace within themselves.

    As conversations around mental health continue to deepen, there’s a renewed appreciation for something traditional wisdom long understood: emotional balance often starts in the gut. Modern studies now link gut health to stress response and mood regulation, reinforcing the idea that mental wellness is not confined to the mind alone. In the middle of this evolving perspective, BelliWelli appears as part of a broader shift toward everyday probiotic support that feels approachable rather than clinical. While probiotics aren’t a cure-all or a substitute for therapy, they can complement professional care by supporting internal balance in subtle, steady ways. Sometimes the most meaningful progress comes not from dramatic interventions, but from restoring the basics and letting consistency quietly do its work.

    Stories of recovery often reveal that mental health is not a straight path but a gradual process of learning, adjusting, and rebuilding emotional strength over time. Many people discover that consistent support, patient guidance, and practical coping strategies can make a profound difference when anxiety or stress begins to interfere with daily life. Therapeutic environments that encourage openness and steady skill-building allow individuals to explore their experiences without judgment while developing healthier ways to respond to difficult emotions.

    For some, structured programs offered here on DBT Center platforms provide a framework for developing those skills in a supportive setting. Approaches rooted in dialectical behavior therapy focus on mindfulness, emotional regulation, and building stronger interpersonal communication, helping people navigate both internal struggles and external pressures. With time and practice, these tools can help individuals regain a sense of stability, allowing progress to unfold step by step rather than all at once.

    Mr. Joseph’s Hall was the latest in a series focused on Health and Wellness, curated for Roxbury Latin boys. Mr. Joseph—a former Division I basketball player, and today a mental health advocate—is the founder of Self Help Tour, through which he offers presentations, workshops, and private coaching, as well as programming specifically for student-athletes on the pressure that comes with performance. As the Self Help Tour website states:

    For too long, the unwritten rules of “toughing it out” have discouraged many talented individuals from acknowledging normal struggles and seeking help. By normalizing vulnerability and compassion through open dialog, our aim is to reduce silent suffering due to misguided stigmas of weakness.

    Mr. Joseph used this ideology as a thread throughout his talk, encouraging boys to lean on one another and embrace vulnerability. After his powerful presentation, he fielded questions from the audience, challenging the students, faculty, and staff with thought-provoking and meaningful discussion topics. For many, the issues that Mr. Joseph brought to light continued as conversation topics throughout the day.

  • Julie Nicoletti on Wellness and Nutrition

    Julie Nicoletti on Wellness and Nutrition

    On November 12, students and faculty gathered in Smith Theater for a Health and Wellness Hall focused on nutrition, led by Julie Nicoletti, Boston Bruins nutritionist and founder of Kinetic Fuel. Ms. Nicoletti founded Kinetic Fuel in 2008 as a performance-based nutrition company focused on optimizing athletic performance, health, and well-being while reducing the risk of illness and injury. 

    “The goal of this morning’s presentation is to challenge you to become more mindful about the choices that you make every day and to become more aware of how those choices make you feel,” Ms. Nicoletti began. “We are only aware of about 10% of the choices we make regarding food each day.”

    In her experience working with professional, collegiate, and high school athletes, Ms. Nicoletti sees various levels of commitment to nutrition and is keenly aware of how nutrition directly impacts performance and health. She explained that the focus of her talk would not be an effort to force anyone to make dramatic changes, but rather to provide information about various foods and what they do or don’t do for the body. “I’m going to try to give you the answers to the test. If you’re motivated to make better choices, you’ll know what you’re looking for,” she said.

    Ms. Nicoletti discussed common foods and food groups, whole foods and processed foods, macronutrients and hydration, caffeine and ideal intake. “For each meal, choose your protein and then add two colors,” she advised. This means that a prime example of a nutritious meal is a protein, whether beef, chicken, beans, or tofu, among others, and then two or more fruits or vegetables that bring color to the plate. If the plate is all beige, that is not a well-rounded or nutritious meal. “Whether you are an athlete or not, student, faculty, or staff, the basis of this information applies to all of us, because we all eat every day.”

    This approach to nutrition education mirrors the philosophy of many modern dietitians who focus on personalized, realistic guidance that fits into everyday life, and it resonates with the kind of support provided through JM Nutrition in Ontario in the evolving world of nutritional care. As more people look for credible, compassionate support tailored to their individual goals, the role of registered dietitians has become increasingly essential. These professionals help bridge the gap between general wellness advice and the specific needs of each person, offering structured guidance on everything from energy optimization to managing dietary restrictions or improving long-term habits. By fostering education, accountability, and confidence, dietitians and nutritionists continue to shape a healthier relationship with food for individuals, families, and communities alike.

    The guidance on building balanced meals by pairing protein with colorful fruits and vegetables underscores the importance of variety and nutrient density in our daily diet. Proteins provide the essential building blocks for muscles, tissues, and overall energy, while colorful plant foods deliver vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants that support every system in the body. For those looking to supplement their nutrition or ensure consistent protein intake throughout the day, options like shakes, bars, and targeted supplements can be a practical addition to whole foods. Programs such as Isagenix Nutritional Cleansing in Canada offer structured ways to incorporate protein and other nutrients conveniently, helping individuals maintain a balanced intake even during busy schedules, training routines, or dietary transitions. Integrating supplements thoughtfully with whole foods can enhance overall wellness, improve energy levels, and support the body’s daily functions while keeping meals both satisfying and nutrient-rich.

    Even when people eat thoughtfully, subtle nutrient gaps can still emerge, especially with vitamins that play a quiet but critical role in metabolism and nerve function. Vitamin B12 is one such nutrient, essential for red blood cell formation, cognitive health, and overall vitality, yet deficiencies can develop without obvious symptoms at first. As awareness grows around personalized nutrition, monitoring nutrient levels becomes a natural extension of learning how food choices support the body beyond what is visible on the plate.

    Reliable testing helps translate nutrition education into measurable insight, supporting informed decisions for both individuals and professionals working in health, food science, and quality assurance. Tools such as a vitamin b12 test kit allow for accurate assessment of B12 levels in food products or supplements, helping ensure nutritional claims align with actual content. This type of analysis reinforces confidence in dietary planning, product formulation, and supplementation strategies, bridging the gap between balanced meal guidance and verified nutrient intake. When education, testing, and thoughtful nutrition work together, they create a more complete framework for sustaining energy, health, and well-being over time.

    Ms. Nicoletti’s Hall is the latest in a series of Health and Wellness Halls focused on physical, mental, and emotional health and care. 

  • 停止、阻止和交谈:与专家讨论互联网安全问题

    停止、阻止和交谈:与专家讨论互联网安全问题

    1月5日,Jackie Lamont和Erica Chepulis在一个大厅里向RL的男孩们讲述了社交媒体的潜在风险和危险。拉蒙特女士是萨福克县地区检察官办公室的代表,专注于年轻人的网络安全和福祉。切普利斯女士通过儿童权益保护中心与检察官办公室合作。他们强调,犯错误是成长的一部分,但我们的男孩正处于适当的年龄,可以学习什么是正确和错误的网络。虽然他们对消息来源进行了保密,但他们提供的材料来自于发生在他们身上的犯罪的青少年。

    我们的嘉宾在演讲开始时展示了一个典型的青少年在任何一天可能遇到的各种社交媒体和互联网应用程序。他们还问观众,在大厅开始之前的那个早上,人群中是否有人至少使用过三个在线应用程序。绝大多数男孩都举起了手。演讲者指出,这样的使用量强调了安全使用应用程序的必要性,并了解每个平台的相关风险。

    青少年可以做的一些基本事情是了解每个应用程序的隐私设置。仅仅通过在个人档案中添加履历信息,我们就有可能在无意中与陌生人分享敏感材料。拉蒙特女士随后解释了青少年在位置共享应用程序方面面临的极端风险。这些应用程序可以跟踪和分享用户的确切位置。她说,尽管与一两个亲密的朋友分享你的位置可能没有问题,但在SnapChat等平台上的任何时候,用户都在向几十个人显示他们的确切位置。Chepulis女士和Lamont女士继续分享了一些提示,如确保青少年了解他们发布的照片中的信息,最后她们解释了社交媒体帖子如何以及何时会越界并对个人的长期声誉造成重大损害。

    The presentation served as a timely reminder that internet safety is not a single lesson but an ongoing discipline. Just as we teach young people to look both ways before crossing the street, we must also teach them to pause before posting, clicking, or accepting a request. Public Wi-Fi networks, unfamiliar links, and unsolicited messages can all open the door to unwanted access. Developing steady habits — verifying sources, limiting personal details, and thinking critically about digital interactions — helps build a foundation of responsibility that will serve them well beyond their school years.

    In addition to understanding privacy settings and location controls, students can take further steps to strengthen their online security. Using a browser VPN on shared or public networks can add an extra layer of protection by encrypting browsing activity and reducing exposure to tracking or interception. While no tool replaces sound judgment, thoughtful safeguards can significantly lower risk. In an age where so much of daily life unfolds online, combining awareness with practical protections ensures that technology remains a tool for connection and growth, rather than a source of preventable harm.

    两位发言人用一首朗朗上口的互动歌曲结束了大厅的活动,提醒学生们如果他们觉得自己在网上陷入了有害的情况,就应该 "停止,阻止,并交谈"。他们还分享了地区检察官和儿童权益保护中心为需要他们帮助的青少年提供的资源。

  • 健康数字参与的方法。吉尔-沃尔什博士的两场讲座

    健康数字参与的方法。吉尔-沃尔什博士的两场讲座

    "人们对你应该和不应该使用什么技术,对何时使用和使用多长时间有强烈的意见,"吉尔-沃尔什博士在史密斯剧院开始说道。"说实话,成年人很困惑,孩子们也很困惑。这些信息并不明确,而且经常自相矛盾。"

    沃尔什博士在今年秋天与RL的学生和教师一起参加了两个大厅,一个是10月27日,另一个是12月8日,作为RL健康和保健系列的一部分。沃尔什博士是波士顿大学的社会学家、研究员和讲师,专注于研究社交媒体如何以积极和消极的方式影响年轻人的情感健康和关系。

    在她的两场会议中,沃尔什博士分享了来自最近研究的明确和令人信服的证据,指出我们如何使用技术--特别是社交媒体--作为情绪调节器,以及过多的技术分心会产生重大的负面影响。

    "她说:"技术不是一个单一的东西,它既不是好的也不是坏的。"相反,人们与技术的互动,以及技术对他们的影响,是非常个人化和个别的。因素可能包括个人的个性、一天中的时间、你在网上看到的东西、你在参与之前的感觉、你与谁联系、以及你花了多少时间。

    "你能做的最好的事情--我将在这两次会议上帮助你做的事情--是让你 使你成为你自己使用技术的专家。我希望你了解什么对你来说是困难的,什么是容易的,什么对你有用,什么没有用。了解这一点,并采取相应行动,是一项重要的生活技能,因为你将在你的余生中与技术打交道。

    沃尔什博士谈到,我们经常使用技术作为情绪管理工具;当我们感到无聊、紧张、疲惫、压力、悲伤或愤怒时,我们会求助于它。"我们不使用技术来管理我们的 积极的你会注意到。我们用它来转移自己的注意力,或逃避不良情绪"。

    她还与学生和教师分享了20-30分钟规则。花在网上的时间--游戏或社交媒体--在20分钟内可以产生积极的影响,因为多巴胺水平增加并达到峰值。然而,这些影响在30至40分钟后趋于平稳,一旦多巴胺水平开始崩溃,就会变得消极。为了最大限度地发挥积极作用,避免消极影响,我们应该花20分钟左右的时间上网,然后在使用科技产品之间休息大约60至90分钟。

    "我们需要让我们的思想有时间去徘徊,去思考,去做人。这种内在生活的培养对于青少年的健康发展绝对是至关重要的,而当我们不断地与技术打交道和分心时,我们就失去了这种能力。"

    最后,沃尔什博士谈到了社交媒体所推动的不健康的比较,而科技公司的算法也依赖于此。"我们的大脑没有进化到可以与我们所拥有的技术一起生活。我们的大脑是为分散注意力和社会比较而设计的;在我们的穴居时代,这些对生存至关重要。但社交媒体是一种有说服力的技术,如果我们没有意识到这一点,如果我们不负责任地参与其中,它就会以破坏性的方式放大这两样东西。"她还讨论了社交媒体的算法如何以我们可能没有注意到的微妙方式促使我们走向越来越极端的内容,强迫我们的大脑建立不存在的联系,使我们不会接受的想法正常化。

    "我担心的不是偶尔和积极地使用社交媒体--它可以连接我们,它可以让我们笑,它可以教我们东西。然而,长期分心的、无意识的使用,我们知道对年轻人的心理健康极为不利。"

    在帮助学生掌握成为安全和健康的技术消费者所需的工具时,沃尔什博士分发了一份工作表,RL男孩可以在她访问之间的几周内跟踪他们自己的技术使用情况,得出他们自己的结论,回答以下问题。

    哪些平台让我感到有联系或有活力?

    哪些平台让我感到疲惫或沮丧?

    一天中的时间是否有影响?

    一次坐的时间长短是否有影响?

    某些人(在现实生活中或网上)是否让我感觉更糟?

    "在社交媒体上,我们是被动的消费者--相对于成为一个主动的消费者,就像我们在徒步旅行,或阅读,或制作音乐时一样。我希望你能意识到你是如何参与的,以及它是如何让你感觉到的,这样你就能控制你与这个数字空间的接触,而不是反过来。"

    沃尔什博士以一句有力的、有说服力的引语结束,这句话是哈里斯/威尔逊说的:"人类有旧石器时代的情感和大脑,有中世纪的制度,有加速的、像神一样的技术。"了解这种 "加速的、像神一样的技术 "可以帮助我们所有人以健康的方式与它相处。

    吉尔-沃尔什在波士顿大学获得社会学博士学位,在布朗大学获得公共政策硕士学位,并在哈佛大学获得学士学位。她的工作是研究技术和社交媒体如何改变了青少年的发展道路。沃尔什博士教授关于社会和技术之间交叉的本科和研究生水平的课程,重点是千禧一代。

  • 哈基姆-拉希姆帮助消除心理健康的耻辱感

    哈基姆-拉希姆帮助消除心理健康的耻辱感

    10月21日,哈基姆-拉希姆在大厅发表了关于他与心理健康的斗争以及关于消除与这些斗争有关的耻辱的个人和重要讲话。拉希姆先生是他高中历史上第一位非裔男性告别演说者,他以优异的成绩毕业于哈佛大学,获得心理学学位。他后来又获得了哥伦比亚大学师范学院的双硕士学位。但是,正如他将告诉你的那样,这些成就和荣誉只是他故事的一部分。自2012年以来,他已成为心理健康问题的主要演讲者,也是心理健康意识和教育的大声倡导者。他曾在国会和参议院面前作证,以提高美国心理健康护理的质量和可及性;他曾被《今日美国》报道过 今日美国他还创立了I Am Acceptance,这是一个非营利组织,专注于在与心理健康有关的话题上增强下一代的能力。拉希姆先生也是Live Breathe和OMA的创始人,OMA是一个为年轻人提供支持整体性和健康的数字体验。

    拉希姆先生以一个非常不同的人生故事开始了他的演讲,从他出现在哈佛大学一年级的那天开始。在他自豪的父母把他送到宿舍后不久,拉希姆先生就开始了他的螺旋式上升。在一次与朋友的聚会上,房间开始向他靠拢,他觉得自己无法呼吸了。当他对诗歌感兴趣时,他变得非常害怕,如果他睡着了,他的创造力就会受到影响,于是他花了两个星期,每晚只睡三个小时。他开始看到和听到不存在的东西,他开始相信自己能说俄语。

    最后,一位朋友打电话给拉希姆先生的父母,告诉他们发生了什么事。他们开车来到校园,为他办理了住院手续,他在精神病院住了两个星期。正是在那段时间里,拉希姆先生被诊断为双相情感障碍,他的心理医生向他解释说,他一直在经历狂躁症发作,这可能包括思想混乱、睡眠需求减少和产生幻觉。 

    拉希姆先生归功于他的朋友,他注意到了自己的不对劲;他的父母带他去了医院;他的心理医生让他了解了自己身体里发生的事情。他们一起帮助拉希姆先生摆脱了疲惫和恐惧,使他有能力过上更健康的生活。他向可能正在经历困难时期的RL男孩或认识的人提供了三个关键经验。 

    寻求支持."拉希姆先生说:"分享可以为他人创造分享的空间。如果没有他的朋友和家人,他将继续遭受未被诊断的双相情感障碍的折磨,永远经历极端抑郁和极端狂躁的阵痛。他说,向亲密的朋友、可信赖的成年人或治疗师寻求支持是你和他人健康的关键。

    教育自己."拉希姆先生说:"心理健康挑战影响我们的思想、感觉、生理和行为。通过倾听自己内心的想法,认识自己的感受,询问自己的身体感受,并反思自己的行为,拉希姆先生可以与自己保持联系,知道自己何时遇到了心理健康挑战。他强调了了解一些最常见的心理健康挑战的潜在症状以及缓解工具的重要性,包括焦虑和抑郁症。

    申明自己."我接受自己,因为 我接受自己并不总是最好的,"拉希姆先生说,"因为我知道我们都是人,每个人都会犯错。 而我将我将在我的日子里对自己更宽容。这种格式(我接受自己......;因为我知道......;我将......)是拉希姆先生所说的接受声明的基础。这些声明(和一般的积极自我对话)是我们在挣扎时的有力工具。"我接受自己他说:"我接受自己吃药的事实,"他说。"因为我知道它并没有定义我.而且我将继续服用我的药物。"

    在离开我们之前(比他找到我们时更轻松、更有力量!),拉希姆先生提供了一个充满希望和肯定的信息。"你最深的痛苦可能是你最高目标的平台"。

    这个大厅是由三部分组成的关于心理健康、旁观者干预和健康参与技术的早晨对话的一部分。作为一个三部曲,这些大厅正在支持RL男孩发展强大的自我意识、复原力和机构。

  • 一爱一帮助RL学生探索健康的关系

    一爱一帮助RL学生探索健康的关系

    4月28日,罗克斯伯里拉丁欢迎全国一爱一组织的当地代表克莱尔-吉安佩特罗尼,该组织专注于教育年轻人了解健康和不健康的关系,使他们能够识别和避免虐待,并学习如何更好地去爱。

    该组织的成立是为了纪念以下人物 Yeardley Love,她还差三周就要从弗吉尼亚大学毕业了,却被她的前男友殴打致死。得知这一消息的震惊将永远伴随着她的母亲莎伦。像所有的母亲一样,莎朗有时会担心她的孩子会发生一些不好的事情--比如说在长曲棍球场上受伤,或者发生车祸。Yeardley会被她的伴侣伤害,这一点她从未想过。"我当时不知道我现在所知道的,关系虐待是一种公共卫生流行病,而且像Yeardley这个年龄段的年轻女性的风险比任何其他人口群体大三倍。

    莎朗-洛夫将她的悲痛化为行动,创立了 "一爱一 "组织,迄今为止,该组织通过面对面的研讨会教育了180多万年轻人,通过教育视频内容教育了1亿多人。在大厅里,一至六年级的学生听取了詹佩特罗尼女士的简要介绍。 Giampetroni,然后分成小组继续讨论。六年级和五年级的学生在合唱室一起参加了由Giampetroni女士主持的会议,一至四年级的学生分成小组讨论,由受过专门训练的学生主持人主持,并有两名教师参加。高年级的学生观看了15分钟的电影,名为 爱的力量这部电影描述了两个高中生在成为虐待关系的过程中的故事。观看影片后,学生们一起思考他们所看到的、感受到的和学到的东西。 有哪些迹象?人物的朋友们可以做什么来介入?从不同的角度看,这些情况会有什么不同的感觉?我们在屏幕上看到的是爱吗?你怎么知道?

    最后,各小组一起走过,讨论健康关系的十个标志(如诚实、尊重、独立、信任、平等、乐趣),以及不健康关系的十个标志(如操纵、波动、背叛、孤立、占有欲)。

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    During these difficult transitions, support from the best West Palm Beach, FL divorce attorney can help ease that burden by guiding individuals through every step of the legal process, from filing and negotiations to custody arrangements and final settlements. With experienced counsel providing structure, clear communication, and practical direction, individuals are better able to manage stress, protect their interests, and move forward with a greater sense of stability and reassurance.

    一爱一 "是为纪念伊恩德利不必要的悲惨死亡而成立的,它致力于通过引人注目、具有亲和力的电影和关于健康和不健康的关系行为的诚实对话来吸引年轻人。我们很感激有吉安佩特罗尼女士和 "一爱 "帮助我们与RL的男孩进行有意义的重要对话。

  • 拜伦-赫特,论生活在(男性)盒子之外

    拜伦-赫特,论生活在(男性)盒子之外

    11月16日,纪录片制片人和反性别主义活动家拜伦-赫特登上了史密斯剧院的舞台,继续今年的健康和保健系列活动,重点讨论男性气质:它意味着什么,我们如何体验它,以及它如何在我们内部和整个社会中表现出来。赫特先生首先做了一个互动练习,描述了社会对男性应该如何做人、做事和表现自己所构建的 "盒子"。他要求男孩们献计献策,他们提供的描述包括 坚韧、强大、独立、自信、竞争、主导、保护、勇敢.

    "赫特先生说:"几十年来,我的工作是让男人和男孩批判性地思考我们被教导'成为一个男人'的方式,然后重新定义它,以允许我们表达我们全部情感和全部人性的方式改变这一定义。

    赫特先生在长岛长大,深受体育文化的熏陶;他打篮球长大,并在年幼时开始踢足球。他后来在东北大学打四分卫,在那里,那些被认为是男子汉的压力或不被认为是男子汉的压力一直跟着他。他开始亲眼看到这些压力对他周围的男人--他的队友、家人、兄弟会的兄弟--以及与他们有关系的人造成的伤害。

    然后,他指出RL男孩认定的 "盒子之外 "的描述--比如说 小、弱、娘娘腔、不如."问题是,这种构造在设计上将妇女和同性恋者定义为'不如'--如果男人这样看待妇女和LGBTQ个体,他们更有可能不尊重他们,甚至对他们使用暴力。"赫特先生继续说,这种构造不仅对他人,而且对男人自己都很危险。在成长过程中感到被限制在这种男性气质的盒子里的男性,更有可能经历抑郁、药物和酒精滥用、孤独、愤怒和自杀。而允许自己生活在盒子之外,则有助于使生活更加真实、稳定、自由、健康和安全。

    "我们不仅仅是男人,我们是人,"他总结说,"为了成为健康的人,我们必须诚实地、真实地、脆弱地表达自己。而我们也应该鼓励其他人这样做。"

    赫特先生的纪录片 嘻哈:超越节拍和韵律在圣丹斯电影节上首映,并在PBS系列节目中播出 独立镜头.赫特先生是 "预防暴力导师"(MVP)计划的创始成员,该计划是大学和职业体育界预防强奸和家庭暴力的领先举措。他还担任过美国海军陆战队第一个性别暴力预防项目的副主任。今天,赫特先生是哥伦比亚大学纪实新闻学的兼职教授,并且是罗伯特-伍德-约翰逊基金会的顾问。 前进的承诺倡议的顾问,这是一个为有色人种男孩和青年男子讲故事的项目。他目前正在拍摄一部关注欺凌的危险影响的纪录片。

  • 亚历克斯-韦伯谈选择诚信的生活

    亚历克斯-韦伯谈选择诚信的生活

    "在罗克斯伯里拉丁,正如你们所知,我们不仅关心帮助你们发展智力上的激情和追求,而且还关心帮助你们开发工具,使你们过上身体、精神和情感上的健康生活,"布伦南校长于9月14日在大厅开始说道。"三年前,我们启动了一项新计划,旨在以这样的形式解决与健康和保健有关的问题。我们已经欢迎了与成瘾、心理健康、营养、社交媒体、性别认同和健康睡眠有关的演讲者。今年,我们将把一系列个人带到校园,他们将关注男性气质的各个方面:它意味着什么,我们如何体验它,以及它如何在我们内部和整个社会中表现出来。"

    在史密斯剧院,罗克斯伯里拉丁学院迎来了这个为期一年的系列活动中的第一位演讲者亚历克斯-韦伯先生。韦伯先生是一位国际知名的演讲者,获奖的艺人,也是美国忍者勇士的精英运动员。作为宾夕法尼亚大学的长曲棍球运动员,韦伯先生曾因担任洛杉矶哈佛西湖学校的校队主教练而被授予美国长曲棍球年度最佳教练的荣誉称号。他还参加了长曲棍球世界锦标赛,并以最佳射手的身份完成比赛。

    "尽管取得了这些成就,"布伦南先生说,"韦伯先生知道经历挫折、自我怀疑、压力、不确定性和失败是什么感觉。而且他现在知道要怎样才能克服它们。"

    韦伯先生给会议室带来了巨大的能量,他首先指出了在 "必须 "和 "非必须 "之间的区别。 必须-"我必须做作业 "或 "我必须在训练中跑短跑",与 "必须 "之间的区别。 ."你们能在这所杰出的学校上学是一种巨大的特权,所以请记住这一点。你不需要 必须做任何事情。你不需要 必须完成那个项目,或在漫长的一天结束后去练习场。选择权完全在你手中。然而,如果你的目标是进入那所大学,或击败那支对手球队,那么这些都是你可以做出的决定。为了实现你的目标,你打算在生活中投入什么?没有人可以替你决定。"

    你想成为谁?是韦伯先生提出的基本问题。"谁是你崇拜的人?德维恩-约翰逊?亚伯拉罕-林肯?威尔-史密斯?你的祖父?你的老师?你的教练?你敬佩他们什么?成为一个男人没有规则,只有建议,也许还有一些最佳做法。 你可以你可以选择并成为你想要的任何东西。研究你喜欢你所崇拜的人的什么,你所尊重的人的什么,然后尝试一下。从你崇拜的人那里获得。

    韦伯先生通过个人的胜利和磨难、挣扎和成功的故事,强调了我们都是我们最常做的事情的产物;我们没有一个人是完美的,有时我们会选择一些我们后悔的事情,但我们选择的事情 选择最常做的事但我们最常选择做的事情将是我们是谁,以及我们如何被人所知。他建议男孩采取三步走的策略,即 定义、决定、行动。他敦促男孩们 建立,而不是 保释."记住,这种生活没有规则。这是一个选择你自己的冒险。我敦促你敞开心扉,积极选择,每天围绕在自己身边的人、选择和习惯都是'浮子',它们使你成长,而不是'锚',它们使你沉重。"

    "如果你把你所拥有的最好的东西给游戏--记住,游戏是你选择的任何东西--那么最好的东西会回到你身上。当其他人需要我们的时候,我们就处于最佳状态。彼此相伴,是 浮动为你生活中的人,并选择在自己周围有 花车也是如此。"

    一位学生在韦伯先生演讲后直接与他分享。"我只是想感谢你今天早上在大厅里说的那些好话。它使我更多地考虑到一切都在我的手中,考虑到我想通过努力工作来成功实现我的梦想。我很感激,我希望你尽快回到RL。"